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October Newsletter

Dear Friends,

We hope you have been enjoying the transition from summer to fall, we’ve had beautiful weather here in NC and are marvelling at the fall colors making their way down the mountainsides.

This month’s newsletter focuses on how we can introduce visual aids to help with negotiation.

If you are interested in a consultation with me on how to expand upon this topic further, please contact me at ron@shoeboxtasks.com or call (828) 252-5111.

Thank you! Ron Larsen, Centering on Children

 

The Power of Negotiation

 Autistic children, similar to their neurotypical counterparts, express an infinite array of personalities to the world around them. When I worked in both Montessori pre-schools and a pre-school for children on the autism spectrum, there was also a spectrum of individual expression, ranging from children who were very cooperative about making transitions from one activity to the next and children who would display a pretty convincing resistance about going to that next activity, particularly if it was not an enjoyable one. These latter situations required some skill in the art of negotiating.

When working with autistic children, it is very important to pair visual aids with the verbal, while using concise language. The most immediate, and often the most successful form of negotiation is the First - Then card. Having such a card, or tool, available when your young student is refusing to go to that next activity does several things.

An example of a First - Then card.

Above: a reminder to wear a coat on a chilly day.

First, it takes the direct confrontation of big person to little person out of the equation. We are now looking at a card together, not into each other’s eyes. Secondly, while the First activity may not be the most desirable, the Then activity is quite desirable. When teaching this concept, the First activity may be shortened in duration, followed immediately by the Then activity. As the student understands and trusts this relationship, that First activity can be of greater duration.

The visuals used must be understandable to the student and can take various forms such as photos, pictures/words, or even objects that represent the activities.  This is a very powerful way to convey the idea that, First I do this, and Then I get to do something I really like to do. For those children with lots of high interest activities, allowing them to make a choice when picking the Then activity can add an element of greater interest and empowerment.

I worked with one young man who disliked going to his “independent work-table” but he loved computer time. A simple reminder with a First-Then card made a world of difference in his day and also to those of us working with him.

An example of a choice board.

There is nothing like giving a student who is self-driven, and needs a sense of control in given situations, the power of making a choice as to what activity (or snack, work, etc.) s/he gets to do. While the student feels empowered by having a choice, the teacher chooses what to make available to that student. A win/win situation!

Please contact me at ron@shoeboxtasks.com if you would like to discuss this month’s topic in more detail.

Thanks! Ron Larsen, Centering on Children

 

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